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Re: Marriage & Family
« Reply #13 on: August 12, 2020, 10:15:08 pm »
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AGU3ERbvlNQ

I thank the Lord each and many times in between for the blessing He has shed on my family and this land we are on. I heard something tonight in my researches that bring meaning to faith.

If you are worrying about what is happening, what is going to happen then you using practical atheism simply because you don't believe that GOD can deliver on His promises.

I also pray each day that if it be my last day, to please take my soul into His loving arms.

Don't worrying, He is in control.


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Acts 17:11.."These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so."
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Re: Marriage & Family
« Reply #17 on: April 03, 2021, 11:48:46 pm »
Reposted at PJ hint

So I had this chance to apply a theory I had wanted to try.  I normally do not do counseling for married couples.  It is just not my area of expertise.   A couple that I have known for about 6 years asked me if I had any suggestions on how they can get their marriage back on track or at least start the communications to do that.   They went into details on what they felt were issues that they felt were causing their problems.   It struck me that there was something under this that they were suppressing.

So here was my solution for them to try.

Many of the local Churches have meditation Labyrinths located on their property.  These are used for many things.  I, myself use them to help me think through issues or to recenter.  When I am writing I use them to help fight through blocks.  So I asked them if they had ever walked a Labyrinth before.  Neither had.  So I told them this is what I wanted them to do.  Go to one of the bigger ones.  I gave them the locations.   Once they get there to get to the starting point.  Face each other, say a prayer together while facing each other and looking into each other eyes.  Then tell each other they love them.  THen ladies first as they start walking the maze patterned, she states something that she has an issue with.  He can not say a word, can not argue or rebut.   Then it's his turn.  The same applies to her.  No rebuttal, just each stating the issues all the way into the center circle.  They have to get it all out the negative.  I suggested they adjust the pace so everything is out of their system by the time they get to the center.   

Once in the center, they were to face each other and hold hands again.  They were to thank each other for the honesty, say they love each other again, then say the same prayer from the start.  Then start the journey out of the maze pattern.  This time though to tell each other all the good things, good memories, and anything positive.  He getting to start this time.   Once they got done again hold hands facing each other, say they love each other then end with the Lord's prayer.

I told them to do all this early in the morning.   Once done go someplace and have a nice breakfast together.  They can not bring up anything said at the maze or discussion in any fashion what was said.  Talk about anything else.   In fact not to say a word on it until the evening so both of them have time to quietly contemplate what was said by the other and reflect on it.   Only then should they have a discussion.

I was afraid this might not work but it was at least a shot at a starting point.

That was ten days ago.  They told me today Good Friday they had done it this morning and followed through and they feel the results were "Fantastic" as they both feel relief and understanding and feel they can now work through things.  The best thing they said this separate from each other in separate text messages.   I hope it does work.
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Re: Marriage & Family
« Reply #18 on: April 06, 2021, 10:43:14 pm »
Reposted at PJ hint

So I had this chance to apply a theory I had wanted to try.  I normally do not do counseling for married couples.  It is just not my area of expertise.   A couple that I have known for about 6 years asked me if I had any suggestions on how they can get their marriage back on track or at least start the communications to do that.   They went into details on what they felt were issues that they felt were causing their problems.   It struck me that there was something under this that they were suppressing.

So here was my solution for them to try.

Many of the local Churches have meditation Labyrinths located on their property.  These are used for many things.  I, myself use them to help me think through issues or to recenter.  When I am writing I use them to help fight through blocks.  So I asked them if they had ever walked a Labyrinth before.  Neither had.  So I told them this is what I wanted them to do.  Go to one of the bigger ones.  I gave them the locations.   Once they get there to get to the starting point.  Face each other, say a prayer together while facing each other and looking into each other eyes.  Then tell each other they love them.  THen ladies first as they start walking the maze patterned, she states something that she has an issue with.  He can not say a word, can not argue or rebut.   Then it's his turn.  The same applies to her.  No rebuttal, just each stating the issues all the way into the center circle.  They have to get it all out the negative.  I suggested they adjust the pace so everything is out of their system by the time they get to the center.   

Once in the center, they were to face each other and hold hands again.  They were to thank each other for the honesty, say they love each other again, then say the same prayer from the start.  Then start the journey out of the maze pattern.  This time though to tell each other all the good things, good memories, and anything positive.  He getting to start this time.   Once they got done again hold hands facing each other, say they love each other then end with the Lord's prayer.

I told them to do all this early in the morning.   Once done go someplace and have a nice breakfast together.  They can not bring up anything said at the maze or discussion in any fashion what was said.  Talk about anything else.   In fact not to say a word on it until the evening so both of them have time to quietly contemplate what was said by the other and reflect on it.   Only then should they have a discussion.

I was afraid this might not work but it was at least a shot at a starting point.

That was ten days ago.  They told me today Good Friday they had done it this morning and followed through and they feel the results were "Fantastic" as they both feel relief and understanding and feel they can now work through things.  The best thing they said this separate from each other in separate text messages.   I hope it does work.
sounds like if may just work..Pray it does.

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1 Cor 15:3-4.."For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:"

Acts 17:11.."These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so."
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Re: Marriage & Family
« Reply #19 on: April 07, 2021, 12:48:23 pm »
I do to and yes they are in my prayers.  They hit a rough patch and are search for a way through it.  Between God, prayers, and hopefully better ways to talk they will make it.
Say each prayer as if it is your very last conversation with God and live each day as your last day to glorify God by your actions and words.

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Re: Marriage & Family
« Reply #20 on: April 07, 2021, 08:30:47 pm »
I do to and yes they are in my prayers.  They hit a rough patch and are search for a way through it.  Between God, prayers, and hopefully better ways to talk they will make it.

From experience, most all couples that are bonded by GOD seem to have hard places to get past...with a little help from friends and experts like you, they will find again the glue that put them together in the first place.

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1 Cor 15:3-4.."For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:"

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Re: Marriage & Family
« Reply #21 on: April 07, 2021, 08:35:46 pm »
They for sure get my prayers.  Far from an expert, just experienced is about the best I can do.  Thank you though.
Say each prayer as if it is your very last conversation with God and live each day as your last day to glorify God by your actions and words.

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Re: Marriage & Family
« Reply #22 on: May 11, 2021, 04:29:48 pm »
Build A Marriage And A Home That Glorifies God


22 minutes
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QeFkgFPNZjU
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Re: Marriage & Family
« Reply #23 on: June 26, 2021, 02:43:54 pm »
I really like this one.  Thank you PJ for posting.
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Re: Marriage & Family
« Reply #24 on: June 27, 2021, 09:57:00 am »
Mark, one of the Love studies I did was marriage...I focused on the roles of husbands and wives, you know, how the husband is to love the wife as Christ loved the church, and how the wife/church should respond.  Anyway, I took Isaiah 53, how Christ loved the church and laid it aside Proverbs 21, the wife of noble character...very powerful study.  I don't know, I may have offered that up already but it was an amazing study to be sure.  I recommend it

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